Margo Johnston 705 November
8, 2012
“This I Believe”
Essay
When I was about 6
or 7 years old, I went to my first funeral. The women who died, Linda, wasn’t a
blood relative, and we weren’t even close with her husband, but we still went.
I can remember seeing the woman’s brothers and sisters and nieces and nephews.
I can remember looking at pictures of her and noticing how young she looked.
How unexpected it must’ve been. When I saw Linda’s kids, I tried to put myself
in their positions, but it seemed so weird. But when I thought about it, I
realized how it was just as good a chance for it to happen to my family as it
was to theirs.
Though
the death didn’t really have an affect on my family, it did change my view on
it. I’ve always loved my family, but going to the funeral made me realize how
important family really is. When I got home I remember immediately wanting to
spend time with my family, as if it was going to be the end of the world.
Instead of going out and having a big reunion with my cousins and aunts and
uncles, I chose to stay in and hang out with just my parents and sister. It
wasn't the same as a big reunion, but it made me feel thankful for my family.
A
couple months after the funeral, my cousin Nikki was diagnosed with cancer. It
was a big deal to my family especially because Nikki had just had a baby and
had recently gotten married. Even though it wasn’t a bad case, and we knew
nothing too bad would happen to her, it still brought my family together. It
taught everybody how you could lose
somebody at anytime, just like how Linda’s family lost her. I had already known
how important family was, but not my other relatives. In a couple of months
Nikki was better than ever and pregnant with her 2nd child, as if
nothing had ever happened.
Going
to that funeral really helped me understand the importance of family, and how
anything could happen at any time. The funeral will always be in my mind and I
will now know how important it is to stay close with my family, just like I did
when my cousin got sick. That is why I believe in family.